Things outside of your control

How to control things?
➡Controlling things is in our hands?  No, it is not in our hands but here we can focus on what we can control and leave what we can’t.
➡We can control the input which is in our hands but we can control the outcome.
➡You can control your relationship with others but you can not control what other people think about you. You can control how much time and effort that you put into preparing a job interview but you can not control either you get that job or not.


The things which are in your control :

➡Your smile.
➡Your effort on work.
➡Your time.
➡Your honesty.
➡How you judge other peoples.
➡Sharing your information with others.
➡Kindness to others.
➡Making decisions etc…

Things you can’t control :

➡What other people do.
➡What happens around you.
➡What other people think of you.
➡The time.
➡The outcome of your efforts.



➡Don’t force things to go your way, but try to influence people with your behaviour. Be a good role model and set healthy boundaries for yourself.
➡You can't control things people do, but what is important is how to act or behave in these situations. I mean how to control your actions, feelings, ideas and behaviour. So, concentrate on yourself.

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